I feel like this a problem with most of us…

We don’t want him/her to be with someone else. We don’t want someone to get the attention we deserve and desire. We fear he/she will get “the good life” we desire to have with the one we love.

BUT…

The reality is…once we leave…we win! The new supply loses! It’s only a matter of time! It doesn’t end with us! We are not being abused because we done something wrong or because we deserve it! We are being abused because he/she is an ABUSER! That will never change!!

We have a chance to be at peace and be happy. We have a chance at a healthy relationship in the future. The abuser does not! 

It didn’t start with us and it doesn’t end with us!!!