I won a $500 Lowe’s gift card, I gave it to him. He purchased $500 in tools at the local Lowe’s where he only had to pay $10.40 for taxes. I bought him two brand new shirts and a pair of shorts, all for his birthday. The only thing I asked for in return was a Pedicure. What…$30? My birthday was three weeks ago and he finally, yesterday said “Happy Birthday” to me as he tossed me a $15 Walmart fishing pole and made his point clear to his friends that he had to pay $10.40 for that $500 worth of tools… Therefore, I technically didn’t gift him at all for his Birthday.
Now, we all know it’s the thought that counts. It’s not the value of the gift that matters but the effort. However, what is this? Am I missing something? If I would have asked him for a new fishing pole, I would have gotten that Pedicure! You got to know how this game works. It’s the game of Narcissistic/Sociopathic Personality Disorder.
You will need to use a bit of reverse psychology if you want or need anything. It has to be their idea. It’s amazing really, what you learn when you study Human Behavior.
If this happens to you, which it probably already has because WE ironically have the same stories, don’t be offended. They don’t care. They are never going to care. Save your own money. Treat yourself to that Pedicure. Because the only things a Narcissistic Sociopath know how to do are steal, kill and destroy.
He’s never going to put forth the slightest effort to make you happy. Hell, he can’t even make his self happy. The only Empathy he will ever show is toward himself. It’s an ALL ABOUT ME game that he will always win.
Don’t think any amount of time spent in a Therapist/Psychologist office is going to make a difference. They are and will always be who they are. Jesus Christ himself couldn’t change that. Don’t believe me? Take that offensive? Did Christ change Satan? Nope. Sorry folks, that’s just the way it is and will always be.